I am driving home in midnight , she calls me to talk about her experience in the relationship seminar that she is in for this weekend. She talks nonstop about how they convinced her that the way she is , is just to independent and is masculine so she has to find her female hood in being passive. I am tired and body aches there are millions of question marks in front of my femininhoood. The last thing that I want is to listen to my friend go on and on about how I need to change the way I am with men as if she ignores the reality of my relationship status and my only concern is how to keep men in my life . I have to read 5 pages of article by Simone De Beauvoir and I need to write a paper for my anthropology class. In my world everything about my gender is being questioned due to my abilities. Yes I am independent and loud and so what that I can be intimidating and no I won't change who I am just to be in a relationship and I totally don't get why would people pay money to go sit in a seminar for 3 days so some one can tell them how to be wife material or not to have sex with the person they are dating so the guy would marry them to me its just manipulation , unethical and destroying self image and identity. But again I am the masculine one that needs to be fixed in their point of view!!!!!!!